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Jul 09, 2013, 09:37 AM
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Member Since: Jun 2013
Location: Arlington, Tx
Posts: 141
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Originally Posted by healingme4me
You do mention, wanting a child someday, hopefully a daughter.
The root of the issue, as I am reading this, is the lack of honesty, right up front. Lack of trust, right off the bat, after being involved 5 months, and solidifying a relationship, *poof*, btw, I have a kid and need you to watch him 1/2 days 10 days(a year, did you say?)
PMS, impending testing, sure, it's triggering(hmmmm...I am going through both of those, too, right now..so um, wouldn't it stand to reason, you and I would be in the same 'angry' stages of grief  )
So, I am going to say, it's the trust factor, first and foremost! This is not the life you envisioned with him, when you agreed to get serious!! |
It is the trust factor that I am dealing with right now. I think that's where a lot of my anxiety is coming from. Right now it's ten days, but what if the kiddo wants to come live with him one day? What then? Like it or not, at that point, I will be a mother figure in his life. Will I even get a say? I am working on that with my therapist. Everything else he has told me has been the whole truth and I haven't caught him in a single lie in our relationship, so that helps.
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