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Originally Posted by yellowfrog268
I think many of us who feel we have been wronged entertain fantasies of revenge but they say that it is normal. The difference between you and her is that you didn't take steps toward acting out your fantasies.
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Those fantasies, whenever I had them, I would be like I wish i didn't have them because it's so not me. I want to be a loving, kind, nonjudgmental person. I don't want to be filled with so much contempt for those that I used to detest. At times I still find myself not being able to forgive, but things have remarkably improved. I hope that I am steering it in the proper direction.