You didnt do anything wrong. James was acting like a richard. A lot of people are upset about the outcome. He wasnt looking to discuss it, he was looking to act like a butt. How old is he? Given the activities you all were involved in, I assume youre fairly young and casual? Now you know his politics and you can think about if those are the kinds of people you want to spend your adulthood around. I once went to a party up north with my first husband after which I thought, if we were just dating, I would never want to see this guy again. Unfortunately we were already married. Stupid, stupid, stupid!