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Originally Posted by will19
On the weekends I feel very lonely. But I can't seem to motivate myself to research for things going in my area that could be of interest to me. In the past I did that a lot and it all didn't work out anyways. So when I keep myself busy doing what I do on the weekends, I'm by myself and then I feel like I'm not missing much. But at the same time, I feel like life is passing me by. Makes sense?
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This makes a lot of sense to me. On my days off it's the same thing: sleep in, run errands, and then sit in front of the computer and either chat online or watch movies. I don't ever go out anymore. I don't really have many people to go out with, but there is always Meetup.com, where I could be looking for things to do. In the past I used to say that meetups were going on on days I was working, but there are two events going on tonight which I'm just not motivated enough to attend. It's not even that I'm too shy to attend them--I know people going. I'm just not motivated anymore to get up and get out of my "zone." To be fair, part of it is that I work 40+ hours a week, and I'm just tired and want to relax on my days off, but still...