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Originally Posted by hamster-bamster
Note that all sorts of developments can happen. You may break up. You need to ensure you are trusting a person who will not divulge your sensitive information after a break-up. Not everybody can be trusted this way. It sounds like your bf is a really good guy, but just make sure. Since many relationships eventually lead to a break-up of some sort, you need to think about what will happen post that hypothetical break-up. Again, he sounds rather nice, so it is just a statement of the general advisability of being cautious.
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I do agree, i've thought hard about this before. I've had close friends betray my trust before, so naturally I keep things to myself unless i'm confident that the person is trustworthy. I do trust him, and he's not the sort of person to go around spilling someones person information just because he feels like it. I mean, he's even said to me that if I did ever cheat on him (A sensitive area for most people) that he wouldn't even go off at me. He'd be hurt, he'd cry, but he'd just leave me alone without making a huge drama. No revenge, no anything.. he'd just leave me alone like I wanted (Because why would you cheat on someone if you actually did want to be with them). That was just a hypothetical conversation, we both know i'd never do that to him, I just thought it'd show that he really is a decent guy, not the sort that gets pleasure from embarressing their ex-girlfriends.
Thanks for the warning on that, I appreciate it
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