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Originally Posted by hamster-bamster
AK,
I got a message on OKC. The message said: "Are you truly open to any age?.." I replied back with: "Yes.", assuming that it must have come from an older guy.
Then I clicked on the profile... a 29 year old guy from my city (which is small, so I rarely get messages from my neighbors). No profile picture. The profile is SCANT. The guy reports being career-focused and finally feeling ready for online dating because he is finally missing someone in his life.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm a virgin and hoping to change that
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Ironically that was something that I posted on my OK Cupid profile for a time. Of course when I'd get no responses, I changed it to a little something more mundane. Still my response to that question would get a red notation (meaning non-compatibility or unacceptable to the other person).
Part of my sad dating story was that I spent well over a year with someone who would sext me (no pics) but give me dirty messages, but we never actually met in person
I feel like that's time I wasted when I could've found a real relationship.