What if you emailed it to her along with the options in your post and let her decide what the best option would be.
if you are going to make the "Leap of Faith" by giving her the letter why not go all the way and trust her judgement on what to do with the letter.
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“If we could change ourselves, the tendencies in the world would also change. As a man changes his own nature, so does the attitude of the world change towards him. ... We need not wait to see what others do.” Gandhi
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