I dated this guy on and off for 6 weeks. Sounds short and it is, but it was very emotionally, whirl wind packed 6 weeks. We are both mid-late 20 adults and met online.

In may we dated for 2 weeks, and it was mostly a physical relationship which I wasn't comfortable with, I told him this... I said I wanted a gf/bf relationship and he didn't.. He said he wasn't happy where he was in his business ( works for himself) and was still hurt from past relationships. He also said he doesn't like to be single/alone when I asked and is one of those people that always "needs a relationship".

We didn't speak for about a month (but he kept commenting about my fb status or any new pics I added to my dating website). He called me one night and against my better judgement I said yes and we started dating again. This time he was VERY mean to me. Rude, patronizing comments (not all the time, but enough of the time to really upset me). Saying things like "oh did that make you feel like you mattered/were significant" patronizing like, "are you going to be good? do you need to go home" " if you're going to act like a *****, I think you should leave". Calling me at 8AM on a saturday to watch him try on clothes... and then getting mad , "I'm mad you made me eat breakfast". Really odd behaviors, lots of contradicting. When we met up one night, I was coming from an appointment and he knew i was going to be late. When I got there he said "where have you been for the last 15 minutes? I'm frustrated that you're late, now we don't have a table! you make me grumpy" He would also blame me for his not showering or not getting work done because he was "talking to me" ( we were talking online while I was at work, maybe for an hour tops when the time was put together.

Needless to say I broke up with him a 2nd time. He told me "well it's not like we were official anyways" then goes on to say, I didn't see long term relationship potential with you which is why I kept things physical and then was rude, that was my self defense mechanism. Then he texts me a picture of him looking said and a picture of his D*** with the caption "sad peen".... We texted briefly the next day where apologized again via text. I told him thanks, but we we weren't right for each other in multiple ways and I don't think it's healthy for us to speak now. I really wish you the best in your business and relationships.

We sent a few more bland texts and then I blocked his number ( didn't trust myself not to respond). He realized this can sent me an email "calling restrictions" and linked me to the song "Blurred lines" followed by "F*** You" by Ce lo when he found out. I did not respond. Then he sent me an email a week later saying he saw me walking past a store but didn't stop me bc I had my headphones in and didn't want to bother me. I did not respond.

He emails me at 3:30am today:

I signed in to Match.com to sign up and who's there, front and center the first picture I see when I sign up other than you. I didn't actually end up signing up, but you look gorgeous.

Why are we not dating again? I miss hanging out with you, doing fun things and cooking you special picnic dinners. Third time's a charm?

I nearly told you I loved you. Nearly. I miss you and I think about you almost daily.

I haven't responded.... Why is he doing this??? He was so mean to me and I hated how he spoke to me. He told me he didn't see "long term potential". I just WISH he would change but I don't think he will... I'm afraid if I answer it will be a whole pandora's box situation where I will get dragged back in, only to wind up more hurt.