This behavior is very immature.... I would avoid meeting up with him at all. I totally get that you may still have a crush on him, but you only dated a short time. I think you should try to meet other guys so that you'll forget about him quickly.

I think if you're talking to other guys... or maybe everyone here on the forum, you'll quickly come to your senses.... I totally get it, it's an emotional response... I'm an emotional person too, but clearly your rational side is saying no... so listen to what your gut is telling you!

Anyone who let's his brother determine if a girl is his match isn't boyfriend or husband material in the first place!