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Originally Posted by ocdwifeofsociopath
Thank you all. I feel much better about wether or not people even care to try anymore. I still find it sad though that I have yet to meet a single person (in person) that I have trusted enough to confide a little in that has not turned around and either used it to hurt me or stayed how they originally appeared. Must be my area...*shrug*
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I made this one friend, through work, she and I used to work together, until my transfer to another location. She and I have remained friends. Like a diamond, in the rough, to come across someone who lacks pretentions. She's a tough cookie, yet, she's honest and true to who she is. It's rare to find friends like this.
For me, learning to trust, is far reaching. Something, that I slowly do. I am reserved, in who I tell what, etc.
I wish, I could spend more time, with her. But, we are both busy with our own families and lives.
Some other people, I share a little more, each time. Otherwise, I will remain, reserved, polite, but not extending that level of vulnerability that leaves me open to hurt.
Maybe, I learned young, the two sides to people. Sorry, the people in your real life, have hurt you
