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Old Sep 17, 2013, 01:59 AM
High Treason High Treason is offline
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Originally Posted by healingme4me View Post
I personally rather a man doing the asking out! ... Wouldn't you, personally feel better about the dynamics of the relationship, knowing, in your heart, that you were desired enough to be pursued?! ... I often wondered, if he was with me for convenience or with me because he truly wanted to be with me.
That's kind of a screwed up world view there. Basically you're saying that men should be the one to pursue because women are valuable enough to be pursued. So by implication, you are saying that men are not valuable enough. Women are too good to have to lower themselves to asking someone out and risking rejection? That should be the man's job because men are too worthless to pursue, right?