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Originally Posted by A Red Panda
- like... no one would offer to hug me really, because my body language displays that I am NOT a huggy person (I've usually got my legs up in front of me and/or have my arms crossed. When I'm standing I've either got my hands playing with my pockets/purse, or crossed or other such things that make me inaccessibly to hugs).
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I do this and people try to assault me with hugs all the time. I don't think it is a given that all or even most huggy guys pay attention to the body language of the unhuggy guys. Even the first therapist I saw would hug me although my arms were crossed etc.
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