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Originally Posted by nicoleflynn
I am so sorry. That was horrific. It was NOT your fault; you were a child and had no defense. You might want to consider writing a letter of "restorative justice"---even though he is dead....the letter says: This is what you did, this is how it made me feel. Get all of the anger, rage and pain out. Hugs, Nicole
You matter a WHOLE lot; you are as valuable as everyone on the planet. You are still here to tell your story....keep talking and getting the poison out. You might want to ask your t about writing a letter of restorative justice.
If you knew of a little girl who was violated as horrifically as you were, I am guessing you would tell her she is valuable and it was NEVER her fault.....YOU are that little girl.....try to love and cherish her.
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Actually, I do know of another little girl. My little sister. I don't blame her. I feel like I let her down. Like her abuse was my fault because I didn't tell. I was just so afraid. My father said he would kill my sister and Mom if I told. So I didn't tell. Thank you for telling me that I matter.
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I shall be telling this with a sigh
Somewhere ages and ages hence:
Two roads diverged in a wood, and I—
I took the one less traveled by,
And that has made all the difference.
---Robert Frost
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