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Originally Posted by monochromatic
Just curious, what about him are/were you in love with? Seems like the problems are far outweighing the pros, and he's not seeking help (aka, there's no solution in sight).
Personally, I think that bipolar or not, he needs help. The fact that he's not seeking help speaks more about him than his diagnosis.
I have good days and bad days, and my boyfriend is stoic and supportive, but I'm TRYING. I'm working out meds and getting sunshine and seeing a therapist and reading books and taking an active role in trying to get better. I hate to see so many problems blamed on a diagnosis, because the fact is - he COULD be taking steps to feel better and be less of a jerk.
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Well, it's funny that I get asked why I love him, but I'll summarize a bit.
I love for a number of reasons, really. I do enjoy the warmth that he does provide with and for a number of his unique interests. I feel like we're similar in some ways, but different in others. We've been on a number of treasure hikes together and tried out some new theme parks around the area. Also love the special notes that I get from him from time to time; I feel like I see a side of him that he doesn't show in public.
When I first met him, it wasn't love at first site... that's a fact. I thought he was weird when he tried channelling my aura. As time went on, I found this weirdness to be fun and ultimately, his personality hooked me. At that time, he wasn't going off with the circus, nor was his popping puss off my body with a credit card. Maybe he was afraid that I'd be scared away? I don't know.
But yeah, you're right though. It's great that you take an active approach; he thinks that psychologists won't be able to help him, essentially creating a self handicap. It would most definitely be helpful for both us to get to that stage though.