So if I should not listen to pickup artists..
How then can I pull a girl out of her zone
And get her focused on me and on Us. ?

I get the impression they are going the risk-free
route all the time...attaching themselves to
a gay best friend, facebook, gadgets, etc. But
Putting last a potential boyfriend.

Is it something about this generation?
I am not fully grasping why we are risk averse
rather than seeing a new guy in your life as
An opportunity and learning experience,
And not something that may lead to hurt.

No pain is no gain, right? Or does no one
care about straight guys anymore?