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Originally Posted by Illegal Toilet
1. My voice is manly, but it's rather boring.
2. Noted
3. My appearance problems is hair loss and vitiligo. I think there's a cure for vitiligo now, but I also have so much wrong with my body. I'm oddly proportioned.
4. my hands are small and no good for sports or playing music
5. lack of skill has a bit to do with my hands. I suppose i could work on something
7. Flexibility meaning i'm not a lateral thinker. I probably used the wrong word there. Also I seem to get stuck on certain phrases whereas I think other people are more creative and random.
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If your voice is manly then you have an advantage over me. Mike Tyson has a little boy voice so you have an advantage over him and a lot of others.
My solution to my hair loss is to wear it cut as short as possible. I always leave a little since I don't like being totally bald. And, this cut is in style right now. Style magazines recommend that guys with little hair bulk up their bodies and I see a lot of guys who are successful this this look, e.g., LL Cool J.
I am oddly proportioned too - my arms are so long . . . But, if you buy nice, good fitting clothes people will notice your clothes and that will distract them from your body proportions.
Do you know that Elton John complains that his fingers are too short for him to be a good piano player? My hands are more woman-sized than man-sized with thin, weak fingers. Again, my suggestion is to develop other parts of your body so that people notice your broad shoulders and strong biceps. I bet your fingers are a lot stronger than mine.
A cognitive therapist may help you with the way you think about things. You are intelligent but are not a conformist and can be radical in your thoughts. But, you can learn to tone things down so that you come across as a reasonable person rather than a reckless intellectual.