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Originally Posted by Lady luxe
...I'm so much deeper, intuitive and intellectual than that.
I don't even like good looking men..who spends most of the time looking in the mirror or at the gym building big guns aka mr testosterone
What I was trying to out across...is I'm highly sexual, and sexy..so it's so hard for me. Cos I would definitely get that easily but being 100% resistant to all these other sex hungry cattle calls who looking for a one night.
I'm looking for something else. Somebody else lol...who ever that is.
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Originally Posted by Lady luxe
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Lol...but as if I'm gonna be soooooooo patient and waiting. It's not gonna happen..grrr
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I had to cut off, an emotional affair, that I was having, post-divorce, towards the end of last year/early this year. Weren't quite the fwb status, as he lives, long distance from me, but everything else, one would want out of a relationship, he was it. Discussed, taking things to the next level, no way, was he going to entertain a more than that status with me, because of the distance(never mind, he met someone local, about the same time, as that discussion...)
Anyways, I don't really have a different value system. I get the need to have someone, who is a bedmate, as well as having that emotional connection. I had to take a good hard look, at why, I wasn't getting the dates and offers. My personal, conclusion, I was giving off that unavailable vibe. Hence, my bring up, the unavailable vibe about the fwb that you have. I wasn't emotionally freed up, to meet someone who would cherish me, beyond skin deep.
just food for thought.