I don't think that anyone can be stereo typed related to their gender and your question is framed in such a light that it assumes that there is a single answer to this that encompasses the entire male gender.

Every man is different and although men, typically are less attached in relationships, not to mention less emotional than women, that's just a generality.

With relation to your situation, he's an ***. Complete and utter jerkwad. I'm sorry but even if one can't personally relate to the pregnancy the "it's just a fetus" takes the cake for complete insensitivity to a woman and especially to the unborn child. SMH.

Perhaps, although, it saddens me to no end to know that your baby was lost, that the sliver of silver lining here is that he seems to be showing his true colors now and maybe he's right. you can find a better, more empathetic and compassionate man. There is not a doubt in my mind.

To personalize this more, I've been through it. My first wife did have a miscarriage and I was completely devastated. Just because he/she was not in MY body doesn't mean that I didn't have an attachment to the baby.