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Originally Posted by Detia
Hey
Listen, we haven't gotten a therapist. Probably not getting one soon cause we're on a wait list. I need help with my host. This girl is seriously getting on my last nerve. She met some guy from work and has been at his house 3 times now and last night she spent the night a second time. He says he can be respectful I don't trust him. He slept on the floor last night after I tried taking over but my girl knocked me back down. Then heck broke loose it was kinda funny she couldn't stop squirming because we wouldn't leave her alone.
I'm here again and tryin to stay bc I'm so sick in tired of her freakin herself out. If you don't trust guys why are you going over and sleeping there and drinking? Shes gotta get a clue but Im lost and we got no support network for this ****.
Ryan
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Ryan, I am new here, but I hope I can help at least a little. I am a host and I act quite a bit like your host. I do dumb things that I end up regretting like sex and drinking, but as much as I regret it, it helps me think clearer at least for a few days. I know it's hard to see your host doing dumb things and that you have to "tag around" to see it, but if you want to help your host, maybe all your host needs is a good friend. It sounds like your host seeks comfort from men and since you are a guy, maybe you can help her have that comfort so she doesn't seek it from men who can't help her feel good about herself.
I know you're upset, but you and your host need to work together. If you can help her, she can help you.