I guess rather than lies, I suspect most of us employ shades of truth. I suppose I don't see truth as an absolute very often. What's that saying about "one man's truth is another man's lie"?

That said, if I saw a pattern in anyone, but especially a T, of "lies" I think I would lose confidence in that person. Not because of a moral judgment, but because if such lies are often used as a way of communicating--making choices that obscure clear relating-- it would feel as though the T had too many areas of conflict in himself for me to have confidence.