Wow Growli, I just saw this thread, read the entire thing, and finally the conclusion of you telling her how you felt, crying, and asking for help.

I just want to say GOOD JOB!!! That much honesty and openness is a wonderful thing imo.

P.S. I was so relieved at how your therapist tried to fix the rupture by accepting your anger, owning up to the miscommunication, and staying calm and present for you. That's what they should do, but as no one's perfect, I was relieved to hear she handled it well.