I saw an on-campus counselor, when I was in college. My parents never knew.

I had this bf, started dating in hs, then carried over into the college years. It was up and down. And, tried to break it off. Then, the friends thing, and it seemed like every time, I tried to pull away, as he was pushing away, then he'd call and want to talk. then it was like a similar, repeated pattern. I remember the final 'break up', I had a most hysterical reaction to the ordeal, perhaps over the top, for me.

It's not easy. No matter, the duration of time. Some ppl, just grab a hold of us, at vulnerable times, in our lives.