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Originally Posted by Syra
I think it can enhance the relationship and support a feeling of connection, so make it easier to talk, AND I thnk it can be risky and begin to feel like a friendship, and subtlely bring in friendship elements to the relationship.
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I think this is where I have a problem. It "feels" like a friendship with T. But I don't think it's because I know a lot about her. I think it's because of the way she is--kind of casual, laid back, warm, easy-going about everything. I knew more about my former T because I used to see her a lot in my community but it never seemed like a friendship with her.
I think each case is different; knowing personal information is good for some, and not good for others. I don't think I could tolerate a blank state T.