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Originally Posted by Lady luxe
This is what happened recently. My colleague was chatting on hours about her love life..in few hours she revealed everything ...lol
She met this English guy(she is Filipino)... 7 months ago...within 2 months of meeting her he got a tattoo of her...bought a star for her...paid all her bad credit worth 90 k ( and he's not even rich).,,and got married. He trains birds for a living. I'm just trying to give u a better picture.
And he's hella cute...only 25.I saw him 2 days in a row, he came in the dead of the night to pick her up ( we work unusual hours) and he came hugging her calling her baby at 3 am..**** that.
It is a love story that's faster than fast and furious...
I'm not really jealous but I'm shocked.
Because she's a bad girl, she told her self...she sleeps around before meeting this guy...her ego is so high ( all her words) ..she even said that maybe she will cheat on him if he did something wrong..
I was like wtf ..this girl doesn't appreciate..or isn't grateful to have him in her life
I mean...I would never say that if I had a guy like that in my life..
A single lonely and not desperate girl like me..wants to kill her self..having witnessed this. I feel jinxed. I havent
experienced love.
And another note, that guy is gonna get hurt really bad...I feel bad for him..he's too good to be true...but I have a feeling he's gonna be hurt very soon..cannot trust this woman. And no if you are thinking I want a piece of him, no thanks because his choice of women is so poor.
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I'll try to shine another light on your friend's situation and maybe you won't see it as all that you're jinxed and she is not. Fact is most relationships that are all fire and passion in the first few weeks of meeting end in the same manner, in a big flash and very quickly. It is NOT love that they are experiencing at all. He is filling his ego by doing things for her, she is his trophy. He is 25 and making impulsive decisions that are life changing without even knowing her - there is no possible way he can know her after 2 months and however subsequent amount of time has passed. Just. no. way. Don't feel jealous. Sure she may be someone that doesnt' seem to "on the surface" to deserve him because she has potential to be unfaithful, but quite honestly if you really look at it, maybe she does "deserve" him as there is no way in hell this guy can be real. In the sense that as soon as he's bored with her filling his ego, he will likely move on. There is no substance in a relationship like this.
Maybe she's jinxed and you're fortunate that when you do find the ONE he will actually love and cherish you.
*many hugs*
~S4