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Originally Posted by s4ndm4n2006
There are men that would truly go to great lengths for the one they want and love. This is true but not necessarily every guy and even those that may go to great lengths for the right one, may not be the right one for you yet.
My suggestion would be the most difficult for you to do but it works. Stop looking outward for a man at all. work on you, be independent and content with what you have. It's hard but content, happy singles are very attractive as opposed to those of us running around looking for the right guy/girl 
Hope this helps
~S4 |
I actually have done this in the past…for a couple years or so. Even if I liked someone, I didn't say anything nor did I really make too much of an effort to pursue them. In theory that makes sense, but in reality, I'm afraid it's going to make me look like I'm not interested in guys at all. And as I've mentioned before, a guy won't approach me or pursue me, so if I never approach or pursue a guy, I'll never date one. Which is fine I guess, but unfortunately I still have at least some sexual attraction to men, or at least some curiosity.
Also, don't content, happy singles seem unavailable? Because they have no interest in a relationship? I don't know…I just wish I was worth people's time. At least enough to where I could figure out my sexuality for sure and be able to "present myself" accordingly.