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Originally Posted by I.Am.The.End.
I actually have done this in the past…for a couple years or so. Even if I liked someone, I didn't say anything nor did I really make too much of an effort to pursue them. In theory that makes sense, but in reality, I'm afraid it's going to make me look like I'm not interested in guys at all. And as I've mentioned before, a guy won't approach me or pursue me, so if I never approach or pursue a guy, I'll never date one. Which is fine I guess, but unfortunately I still have at least some sexual attraction to men, or at least some curiosity.
Also, don't content, happy singles seem unavailable? Because they have no interest in a relationship? I don't know…I just wish I was worth people's time. At least enough to where I could figure out my sexuality for sure and be able to "present myself" accordingly.
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There's a difference in being a happy single, but open to relationships and being happily single, period.
I'm not closed off at all to finding someone, I'm just merely waiting. This does not mean that I'm unfriendly or closed off to the opposite sex at all, flirt with me and surely if I notice, I would be flattered and interested but I don't have my feelers out for a new love nor am I "putting myself out there" like some people think they have to do.
Also happy, content singles, I don't think, give off "unavailable" automatically. Happy and content tends to be more attractive than "discouraged and wanting" singles.