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Old Dec 02, 2013, 04:03 PM
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Originally Posted by I.Am.The.End. View Post

Also, don't content, happy singles seem unavailable? Because they have no interest in a relationship? I don't know…I just wish I was worth people's time. At least enough to where I could figure out my sexuality for sure and be able to "present myself" accordingly.
I can't advise, how to present your sexuality. I'd guess, feeling content and comfortable in your own skin, will just attract whomever is going to be attracted to you.

I,, respectfully disagree, about giving off, an unavailable vibe, happily single doesn't mean opposed to being in a relationship. It means, take it or leave it. Not settling for something that isn't going to be healthy nor conducive to my life.

Yes, those links talk about maintaining relationships. I've been in discussions that have said, if only those skills were known and used going into relationships, there would have been better chances for less resentment, through the years. Nothing like waking up, 5/10/15/20 years later, to realize there's kids and things just aren't what one desired.

I'm in the beginning stages of a relationship. Glad, to know these skills now.



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