I don't understand why there is such a stigma, even in the mental health community, when the words "borderline personality disorder" are uttered. Ever since I received this dx my podocs and therapists have all been very surprised that I am a relatively pleasant/patient individual.

I mean sure I overreact to things but I have learned to internalize much of it or tone it down to an appropriate level. It sucks having to search high and low when you need a new therapist because so many of them run for cover when they hear I have this diagnosis. It feels like I have been branded forever :/