We have sort of decided to move slowly apart. Had one big breakup fight but he found me after I left and begged to me. Anyways, now even he knows that I can't keep up with his behavior.
Buddy17 alone has mentioned talking to him. I have spoken enough to solve even the fight between two nations but not much comes out of talking to him.
There is too much damage in this relationship. It is destruction. I have lost weight, lost much when it comes to job, lost friends, started self-harm, become depressed, lost sleep... And the list goes on...