In the past when I agreed to sex with a girl,
It either opened alot of emotional insecurities
afterwards on both ends, or there were erection
and performance issues. And with some, sleeping
Together overnight was bad idea... I couldnt get
A wake of sleep all night! Before sex no real
Problems yet afterwards the breakups occur
It seems...

Yet with certain adult films I have no erection issue,
But quite opppsite.

So now Im hesitant to have sex.

But I see couples around town each sunday.
So how does one make a healthy relationship
work nowadays? Obviously there are couples
And people getting married. So some people
Make it work somehow right?

Roger,32
Northeast US