(I'm gonna brave posting in public)

I would need to find another sponsor. There's noway I would feel comfortable with someone who's doing marijuana maintenece. You said it yourself that it's wierd working the program with someone who's not clean themselves ---- exactly.

I picked my sponsor because I want was she has, ie: she's happy joyous and free. I wouldn't want what someone has if they're smoking pot. That's for me though. If she looses you as a sponsee, maybe it will help her get clean for real. Who knows. But do what you need to do for you, for your sobriety. =)

~Rayna