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hear ya there _Sept......however what if everyone at this site thought this way? what if everyone here thought that "THEM" was the issue and "THEY" needed to change.....not the individual but always the "OTHERS"? wouldn't that be a deadlock of nothingness with nobody changing because they're expecting others to change?
just food for thought with all the expression going on....

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I personally feel if all the MEMBERS of PC work on Acceptance/Mercy/Consideration/Compassion (of another) within them selves, and not try so hard to change another persons point of view, feelings, or thoughts (grown from them and their past) then we all will benefit from the improvement and this wonderful site will have gained from the CHANGE.... and all we have to do is render (and put into practice) this old saying:
Do unto others as you have them do unto YOU.
.... in other words treat each and every member of PC (no matter if they share your pov or not) the way you would want / desire to be treated.... and always with LoVe & Respect at all times, and without anger or negativity - for those two evils will but only lead to resentment.
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My statement is meant to HELP not to point fingers or blame, for we are all in this together.
LoVe,
Rhapsody - ((( hugs )))

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I SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO agree. I couldn't have sad it any better. Thank you both for helping me state my opinion and getting the words out for me.

IMHO~What happened to treating people as equals That's the problem it's not happening and others will stray.