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Originally Posted by Spockette
I'm sorry but the reality is you won't ever forget this...it's like saying how do I erase this sort of thing. You can only give yourself time and eventually the hurt will lessen. It's a choice really, you can decide to move on with your life and not obsess over the past or you can be stuck over something you have no power over anymore. I think these things happen for a reason...if it was meant to be you would have found a way for things to work out. It doesn't mean you won't ever love again and I think to deny yourself this sort of opportunity is rather self-defeating. Keep posting here, it can't hurt to take advantage of the support on offer. Members here will try and help in any way they can. Good luck.
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I don't mind remembering and not forgetting all beautiful memories we had, but I don't want to love him all my life, someone I will never see again, someone who isn't mine anymore. I don't know if I can love again, I just can't see it happening one more time with such STRONG feelings. I think I loved too much (if it is possible) I am out of relationship not by choice so love is still there, I decided to move on and I do my best to move on with my life, I am seeing a therapist I am going out with friends, but it all feels more like existence for me, and again I gotta do it.