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Originally Posted by healingme4me
Did he give any indicators as to why he wasn't committing to this, before? And with indicators, has he expressed being in tune what leads him down this path, so that he can be more aware and mindful, in order to not bring you harm?
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He made bad choices on a whim. He didn't think before he acted. That's why this time we're talking it really slow. If he has any doubts, I told him to just tell me right away, I can handle it.
So far, the only people who know are my Mom and my daughter. My Mom is weary but ultimately wants me to be happy. She said if I think I can handle another disappointment then try. She trusts my judgement and I am grateful for that.
Our daughter, on the other hand, says she doesn't trust him at all and is tired of seeing me hurt. She has been my rock for so long, and I value her opinion so very much, but ultimately it's my choice.
I really want one more shot at being happy with him.