In addition, he hasn't kept any of his promises to my son or me & he bullies & blackmails me into handling all the responsibilities in the house. I have a dog, which he found for my son. When I ask him to walk her, he says no because he doesn't like animals & that the animals are my responsibility since I wanted them. He knew this when we moved in together.

As I look at things that happened in the past, I realize that he didn't plan on being with me for long because he wasn't interested in signing th elease with me, didn't want to put his name on any home bills, didn't want to look at apts with me, never offered any $ towards anythng in the house except the rent. It was all on me. Why did I accept it? IDK...but I know I won't let this happen again. If someone breaks my deal breaker again, I will leave them in a heartbeat without an explanation. I can't continue to hurt myself becaue I need me & my son needs me.