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Old Jan 28, 2014, 04:02 AM
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Member Since: Aug 2010
Location: Sydney Australia
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I am in an extremely confusing and horrible position.
My partner and I have been together for 2 1/2 years.
We constantly, constantly fight.
We have insanely good chemistry and we are very very comfortable with each other but we clash on a LOT of issues.
We have a lot of different morals. I come from a catholic household (even though I consider myself agnostic now) but I was brought up with Christian values. He was brought up in an aethiest household.
We are so so so different.
When we are going well, it's fabulous. We have so much fun together and we honestly do love each other a lot.
I have suffered severe depression in my past. I have been hospitalised for major depression three times but I have been in remission for three years. I now do speeches in high schools across sydney for mental health forums - helping young people who battle depression.
I consider myself a very happy, positive person.
My partner went through all my stuff with me. He has seen me at my worse.
We broke up briefly because he couldn't handle it.

The tables have now turned. I am happy and positive about my life, and he is utterly unhappy about his work and his health etc.
He is dragging me down. He acknowledges this but is just so angry about everything.
That's another thing - his anger.
He gets so angry SO quickly and is so negative about EVERYTHING.
It is so hard for me to stay afloat.
I try to help him but he is a procrastinator and he is stuck in a rut.
I'm not sure how much more I can take.
I can see us soaring if he just got better within himself..

I don't know what to do.
I am devastated by this.

Any advice would be great

xox
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Disorder | Rating
Paranoid: High
Schizoid: Moderate
Schizotypal: Moderate
Antisocial: Low
Borderline: Very High
Histrionic: High
Narcissistic: High
Avoidant: High
Dependent: High
Obsessive-Compulsive: High