oh i understand u. this T i have doesnt let me call or email ever. and i had to suck it up when i was used to be able to call my ex-T. yeah she doesnt seem much clear. she says she doesnt want but then says oh u can but not always. i think she doesnt want u to become much dependent on her but u can do it if really needed. and when is good thing u achieve i would like to think she would be glad u called? did u tell her why u wanted to call?
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Originally Posted by Yearning0723
No to emailing; calling in crisis SOMETIMES, but only to book another session or do a phone session; she doesn't stay on the line and she'll only call back during her regular hours, not any time of day or night or weekends. And it's not her boundaries I have an issue with; it's just the way her STATEMENT of her boundaries made me feel. The boundaries themselves are fine; there was just something about the way she put it that felt off to me...or possibly I was just feeling super sensitive. And when I wanted to (but didn't) call her, it wasn't an emergency; just a really positive thing I was proud of and wanted to share with her. But then I thought it could wait until session and it could.
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