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Old Feb 22, 2014, 10:19 AM
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Originally Posted by ScrewedUpMe View Post
Hi all,It feels like just because I have BPD that I should be grateful for anyone being with me. I am so angry at T right now for dismissing my feelings on the phone and for the fact that I can't talk about my relationship problems. I feel like cancelling my appointment or emailing her to tell her I cannot talk about my real issues at the moment because I think she is biased...sorry this is so long...any thoughts would be very welcome! Thanks.
You hit the nail on the head, right there. That's a valid reason, to feel this isn't the best T, for you.

Could be a bias towards divorce, in first place. Your dissatisfaction, within your marriage needs to be addressed, so that your final decision about marriage is clear, rational and a logical one.

Sure, you've bpd, at the same time, you are human, with needs that need to be met.

You deserve, to have someone hear you out, even assist you in a pros/cons list, etc.

I'd address this, even with words you've used.



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Thanks for this!
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