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Originally Posted by MissInvisible
I'm sorry if this is in the wrong forum. I have been obsessed with my friend. I feel slightly bad because in the past I've commented on most of his statuses. I am making progress but it's slow. I do appreciate my friends. I have a fear of losing friends. I get nervous when I talk to my friends. I also worry that they will think I'm boring. I have been hurt a lot because of jealously. I keep telling myself that I have lots of good friends but I don't know why I still concentrate on one person. The crush feeling has gone and I have realised that I was obsessed with him. I'm a bit afraid of posting this thread.
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Hi Missy, Most behavior is on a continuum and its intensity can change over our lifespan, so I'd ask you not to be so hard on yourself. You've shown insight into your own behavior. That's a good thing. You are not boring, not in the least! You're interesting, creative and intelligent--all wonderful qualities.