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Old Feb 28, 2014, 02:14 AM
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Originally Posted by Hellion View Post
Or do people just say 'you asked for it' because they are trying to justify their nasty remarks. I've noticed more than once people try to say that sort of thing...so in which way does one ask for nasty remarks from others when they aren't provoking it?
One doesn't ask for nasty remarks, implies you deserve to be treated in a nasty manner.

Not much, on this planet, that cannot be resolved, with a little kind hearted compassion.

About knowing the difference between pent up resentment, personal stuff carried forward, trying to neatly compartmentalize others, with own prejudices. Prejudices being, well i know everything about everyone, so how i see you is truth, because you remind me(you plural, not singular) of that persons story i saw on such and such a TV show, or similar, ( to exemplify).

Honestly, when you asked this, I'm just analyzing my own, personal, real life, crap, that i can't begin to fathom.


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