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Old Mar 04, 2014, 12:34 AM
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Originally Posted by skies View Post
One of the first things that crossed my mind was that TT knew she was leaving/has been looking for another job, and because of that, she held a distance from you and her other clients.

So, she may have not been fully engaged, which may have come across, even if just in part, as not caring.

Even if it was you, no reason to blame yourself. None of us like or gel with everyone. It's just human nature.

Hope things work out the best for you.
If she knew she was leaving, why would she try to start serious trauma work two months before her leaving? I feel like this would have been so much worse if we were knee deep in that stuff and for her to just say she was leaving the next week, or in my case, that day. I'm never going to see her again. She wished me luck in my career and life today. It was bizarre. It was like she cared but only at a minimal level...? She kept saying it seemed like I has something to say. I said no. She said I am interesting and difficult to read. I told her that I am difficult to read to some people and very obvious to others. What I didn't say was that I'm difficult to read to people who I don't want reading me. If I'm comfortable with someone, I become much less catatonic.