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Originally Posted by hd17
Hey, It's ok that you want to tell him these things, it's because you trust him. trust is ok, and he seems to understand you, I wouldn't be worried about him leaving. I was raped once by my ex boyfriend and I told my boyfriend now and he's still here, of course it made him upset about it and assured me I was safe with him. Not all guys are the same, telling him is taking a chance but if you honestly and truly trust and like him, then it's all about taking chances. Has he opened up to you? I'm sure there are a few things that he wants to share and is scared to for the same reason. Just relax, wait to tell him if it's more comfortable for you, when you really have a good sense of how the relationship is. I don't think you're unbalanced, i think you just trust him and you want him to know your past, but be careful not to live in it. Some things just don't need to be relived. Good luck and don't stress  |
I m not sure if i can trust him enough or on a level yet....I just feel it seems there is a magic and love fm him,and it lets my heart melting.I haven't had such feelings with other men. So when i talk with other guys ,we normally only have one week time for conversation,then it will come to end.I v been talking with this man for one month,it gives me a hope that i feel i m able to share and someone also able to stay with me, and it also makes me think and progress in my soul...that's why i feel i can't control myself,i feel so much to share more.....but same time i worry,i don't know if i can trust him enough.
(each time after our conversation,it is like having a nice swim and let my nerve relaxed and i can breathe fresh air.I don't why only he can make me relaxed.)