You often here about men complaining the wife no longer wants sex after giving birth. Not straight away obviously, but it's been a problem for several months. I'd like to point out as well it's not a 100% certain thing. You get women who fall pregnant almost instantly after giving birth, I mean in general it's something you hear about quite often.

In regards to sexual feeling in therapy. A male is more likely to have sexual attraction but the sexual feelings are often based on that. A woman is less likely to have sexual attraction, but when she does, the feelings are more intense.

I fancied my female T the first time I saw her. But I also liked some random woman walking across the street. I would have liked to have sex with both but that didn't make it erotic transference.