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Originally Posted by tametc
HazelGirl, did you know that it's actually a part of the Ethical Principles and Code of Conduct for psychologists (which would probably be similar to other types of therapists, such as MSSW, LCSW, etc.), that they strive to do pro bono work? This is from the American Psychological Association's website:
Principle B: Fidelity and Responsibility
...........Psychologists strive to contribute a portion of their professional time for little or no compensation or personal advantage.
I think in general, most (not all) therapists are some of the best people in the world, regarding kindness, generosity, etc. So let your T give you this gift. Tell her your fears of how it might backfire down the road. I bet she'll reassure you.
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I know she's a good person, and that she isn't likely to ask for it back or anything. Part of it is that I am afraid she will start to resent me for it, even though it's only two months, and part of me just really hates taking anything from anyone. I feel like I already owe her so much, and yet she doesn't hesitate to give me more. I feel like she will realize I'm not worth her time because I can't give her back what she has given to me. And I am terrified that will cause her to hate me and abandon me. I feel like I am going to take too much and cause her to reject me, and that is freaking me out. I know it's based on my past and on my insecurities, but it just doesn't seem fair to her.