So I was here a couple of months ago talking about some things going on with me and my husband and I don't remember how much I shared, but I discovered a lot of emails on his iPad that were setting up sex dates with people, men, women, transexuals, and prostitutes. He was also putting ads on Craigslist and on another webpage advertising himself as a driver/security for prostitutes. He was a member of at least 10 fetish websites and hook up sites that I could find.

I gathered as many printouts as I could, especially the ones offering money and pot for sex and brought them to an attorney who I later hired.

I made him move out of the house and we are now getting a divorce.

I will be moving to the town my parents live in because my kids can no longer go to their school and this town has a good school system. As a result of us separating, the school has taken away my son's scholarship. My husband's friend owns the school and because my son is my husband's step son the owner of the school is retaliating by taking away my son's scholarship at the end of the year. My husband also accrued a huge debt with the school because every year when the fees were due, he said he was paying them but really wasn't. He got a job at the school and was supposedly having money taken from his paycheck to pay off the debt, but I later found out it wasn't true. So, now that we are getting divorced, the owner of the school wants me to pay the bill. I told my attorney the story and she is fighting to have my husband pay it.

Anyway, we are in divorce limbo, but I am glad that I am free from such a liar and a cheat. Fortunately my bipolar is stable to the point where I can handle all this and I will be getting a job so that I can go off disability and not have to depend on the child support that I anticipate will be a fight with my husband to get every week. For now he is paying the mortgage and once the house is sold, he will start paying the child support.

I am not sure how I am going to afford or even get approved to get an apartment, but I want to sell the house because I know my husband well enough to know that he will stop paying the mortgage and the house will get foreclosed on. I want to at least be able to get my half of the equity while we still have it.

So things are suckish, but I can see the light at the end of the tunnel, and I never have to put up with the crap from our relationship any more.