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Originally Posted by Rose76
That's quite an experience to go through. You don't have any obligation to forgive your brother. You would be wise to get out of being in between your parents and your brother. If they will tolerate behavior from him that you think is disrespectful, that is really their business. It will probably be that way for as long as you all live, and you would save yourself a lot of aggravation by accepting that you can't change it.
Look at the bright side. If he and this new girlfriend get along, maybe he will be looking to move out soon and get a place with her. Sooner or later, you will probably be moving out of there, yourself. In the meantime, it is your parents' house, and it is up to them to set the rules, or lack of rules. It sounds like your parents are more disturbed by you and your brother fighting, than by your brother's behavior. Just ignore him and don't try to change what you cannot change.
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Yes! I agree! But he actually wants his nasty girlfriend to move in here, he isn't going to move out anytime soon, cause my brother has a cushioned lifestyle here with my parents. So I highly doubt he will move out, and him and his stupid girlfriend act like Psychologists and pick me apart constantly. I hear them on the phone, they are saying all the time "She's holding a grudge, and she has trust issues, she is just full of hate etc." They are not smart enough to diagnose me, and I see a Psychologist right now and she said I just have trust issues that's it, and they are just picking me apart, and trying to analyze everything I do, it's ****ing annoying, cause if they mean absolutely nothing to me, then keep me out of your conversation, keep me out of your life. Like I could care less about him and their life. I do feel stuck right now, and to have my brother keep on standing his ground that he's right and that I am mentally screwed up etc. It just makes things a lot more aggravating and more frustrating, but thank you! I do agree it's my parent's house, but I am not making up excuse for myself, but honestly I was coming from a place, of love and respect from my parents, cause him and his girlfriend were here for a week at this point, and they were just taking advantage and they thought it was funny, they thought it was cool etc. I was fed up with them just acting like pigs, and taking advantage of my parents, so I was coming from a place of protection for them. Cause my parents don't realize that he does this to them, cause they just think everything he does is right. Thanks again for the support!