Hello and welcome to Psych central. I am sorry you are going through all of this at this time. I feel that yur husband needs counseling as well, but if he will not go to counseling, I feel you should go yourself so that you can stay stable with your mental health. Hopefully in time your husband will change his mind about counseling if he sees that you are serious about the relationship yourself. i hope the best for you in the future. take care Soidhonia
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The Caged Bird Sings with a Fearful Trill
of Things Unknown and Longed for Still
and his Tune is Heard on the Distant Hill
for the Caged Bird Sings of Freedom
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