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Old Apr 18, 2014, 03:23 PM
intouch33 intouch33 is offline
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Originally Posted by hannabee View Post
I wish you could give an example of a disagreement????
A few weeks ago I got a call at work. It was my wife, she was calling concerned that we had no water. We live on the prairies in Canada and frozen pipes are a major concern this year. So with her concern on my mind I drove home and started to look into things. Turned out that it was a broken water main and we were to be without water for only a few hours.

I had the next day off so she was to take the vehicle that I drove home from work on the day of the water issue. Apparently I had neglected to fill the tank..... in which I apologized for once it was pointed out. So in retaliation to my neglectfulness she took a picture of the dashboard, posted it on FB with a caption on it LOL with all her little group about how she wasn't going to put gas in just so I would learn my lesson.

It was at this time that I found out that she has 2 FB accounts. One for me and my family...... which she never looks at. And another for socializing. Now with that being said I am not an avid FB`er so for how long this has been going on I am not sure.

A very close friend was on my wifes other page(the one she uses) and sent me a copy of said picture. I went and put gas in the tank. I was upset but not really. I thought at this point that I would set up a couples therapy session. When I told her about the appointment my wife was ok with it.... she didn't even react when she found out. The fact that she showed no emotion, no care that she had hurt me angered me. I have anxiety and it just blows up when I am expecting some sort of apology or admission that wrong doing has occured and it never comes. It takes me weeks to get over at which time I am angry. I dislike being angry..... I have ulcers and they flare when things like this happen as well as my IBS.