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Originally Posted by HazelGirl
This has red flags all over it. You should not be marrying someone who is a compulsive liar with a temper until he is much better and you know he isn't lying or getting very angry anymore.
I'm not saying you should leave him yet. That's up to you. But this isn't a good situation for you. I'm glad he's getting help, that's a good start. But please, for your sake, put off the wedding until he is more emotionally stable.
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I agree. No wedding date has been set. I will not marry him if I'm not sure. I cannot handle lying. My father is a liar. So I cannot and will not marry one. I'm actually not even sure I believe in marriage but that's another story. I'm wondering if I should be continuing this relationship. I feel like we are both too broken. He needs someone who has the stomach that I used to for his trauma, temper etc and I need someone who is honest all or mostly all of the time.
I'm a lot younger than him but his issues have aggravated mine and I feel much older than I am.
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