I followed what I believed was my heart ^^but it was really just following a dream. I have always preferred older men but they seem to think they know better than me. Is that because I am younger? IDK. I am an adult but it seems I have always, always, been the more mature, more loving, selfless individual in the relationship. That works fine for a while but as soon as I claim to have needs, it's like, what??? Can't you do that yourself? Why don't you call a friend to do that? Or take your sister I'm busy! He's got his own agenda and I'm not talking about an important agenda either. As long as I'm there for him (and I always am) everything is fine.